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where is home?

bethany

for me, home has always been an anchor.  a haven, a place so delicious to come home to that it makes the trips all the more savory.  i remember many trips to El Salvador and Peru when I was younger, in which the layers of grime built up, slowly, to a point where you could pretty much scrape the crust off your skin with a fingernail.  layers of sweat and dirt and pollution and grime that almost took on a life of their own.  the badge of "i went waaay off the beaten path" to the trip-collecting-junkie that i was becoming.  (showers not being exactly plentiful, or even possible in most cases). 

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cats

douglas

at first we weren't going to take the cats because we thought they would run away. now we've decided that we are going to bring them but they will be in-camper cats. here are pictures of them:

this is edmund

this is edmund

sparrow

sparrow

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edmund

edmund

right now edmund has a lump on his tail and we don't know what it is, but we thought it was broken. the difference between edmund and sparrow is that sparrow is thinner and has a more narrow head and edmund is fatter and has a wider head. he also has a goatee. one time edmund got himself stuck up in a 70 foot tree because he was chasing crows. he stayed there until midnight then came down to a bowl of fancy feast.

here is a picture of that:

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The Tale of the Cowboy Jig

michael

In grade school, the most popular boys had developed a lexicon of cool things to say, which the initiates were allowed to use but those of us on the fringes and beyond could never say without netting silent withering stares of 'how dare you leave your station and try joining our party'!!  Cool things like "tink" for when your pencil tip broke (or was actively broken, "tink" spoken with a lilt of glee) or "roar" for when anything went badly, often used when corrected tests were returned.  There was "The Cowboy Jig" that one of the gang gleaned from some TV show and showed off to the others in morning homeroom. 

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a truck, a truck, we found a truck!

bethany

at long last, we have one of the two vehicles we need! 

it's incredibly nice to have one piece of the puzzle taken care of, and a very big piece at that.  19' of it at least :).  we ended up with a '95 Ford F250 7.3 turbo diesel Power Stroke in red and white.  to say michael and the boys are pleased is a rather gross understatement.  they're thrilled!

i spent more time researching online than i ever expected, going back and forth between craigslist and edmunds.com and ford truck forums and used car websites and ebay and .... you get the idea.  once we kind of narrowed down the search to a two-wheel-drive diesel truck that could handle a decent tow load, i pretty much kept looking for F250s.  michael loves a Ford, and honestly the older the better.  simple, powerful, and not too many things to go wrong. 

given our past experiences with the Jeep we bought 2 years ago (A BIG FAT LEMON, yes all caps are entirely appropriate!) and then the Neon that lasted longer and failed less epically, but still is ready to bite the dust ... our confidence in choosing vehicles is rather at a low ebb.  more like non existent.  so we asked questions, gathered opinions, asked more questions, and decided to search not only around here, but in TN where my ran-a-Ford-Service-Department-for-years brother in law lives.  doh!

within a few days, the candy-striped beauty up there showed up, at a nearly affordable price, and only 15 miles from where my in-laws live.  on paper it looked great, the vehicle history was pretty clean, and michael loved the look of it.  they went and test drove it for us, in the pouring rain no less, and deemed it worthy.  they negotiated, and were able to get it down to a great price, but with the taxes it took it to just above what we could afford.  (cash only, payments give me hives).  so we let it go, and figured that if we got a bit more money, and it was still available, we'd get it. 

a week later, we put a down payment on it, and grinned from ear to ear :).  a truck!  we bought a truck!  sent the rest of the money that week, and on labor day weekend michael took a bus down from NYC, and picked it up and drove it home.  700 miles without a blip, and the longer it ran the sweeter it sounded.  not to mention the mpg was up to 26 with the tailgate down and the AC off.  extra sweet!

it needs a couple little things taken care of, and we're having it looked at by a mechanic just to make sure they can't find anything really wrong before we put it to the test of hauling us and our belongings all around the country.

it's a relief, a huge relief, and we keep finding things that make it even better.  the tow hitch that's already in place.  the aftermarket turbo booster our neighbor discovered on it.  the engine that is extra clean.  the mechanic we took it to (who is local but we've never used before, though he changed my SIL's tire for free a couple months ago) just happens to have the exact same engine in the truck he built for himself.  lots of little things like that ... which add up to the feeling that this was the Right one, if there's any such perfect match.  i think she's a keeper :).

oh, and she's loud.  very.  you won't miss us pulling in your driveway, or down your block, or possibly even into your town, should you live in a small one.  this makes my husband very happy, and me just a wee bit flinchy ... but i'm sure i'll get used to it. 

onward!

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what we leave behind

bethany

i never expected to fall in love with this corner of the globe, but i have.  i knew living right on the river would be gorgeous, the woods embracing, and the peace healing.  got all that right.  but i had no idea i'd fall into a community that felt like home.  a perfect mix of kids and parents rollicking up and down the block on nearly every summer weekend, and then some quiet days in between.  the best of both worlds. 

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i'm a bit freaked out

bethany

we wanted to leave by october 1st, and still have no appropriate vehicle.  which is rather necessary for getting this thing off the ground!  our lovely little Neon, which had seemed more or less reliable, finally had its cylinder 4 misfire code figured out, and it's got low compression.  which means boku bucks in repairs (head gasket etc) and it's just not worth it.  so our plans to buy a cheap RV and tow the Neon have morphed into buying a cheap (but reliable!) truck and then getting a cheap trailer to haul behind it. 

i can't tell you how many times we've switched sides in the last 6 months  ... RV+car ... no ... truck+trailer!  and back, and forth, and back, and forth.  the death-knell for the Neon (which we're still driving, and hoping the right front strut doesn't give out too soon) was the decision-maker in which way to go.  we'll need a truck when this is all over anyway, for building a cob/stone house, so it makes sense to get a decent one now.  the mpg benefits of the Neon were big for long trips, but i hope we won't be making any terribly long road trips any day too soon after this one is over, so that's a mostly moot point. 

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this kind of rambling/thinking/researching/worrying has been going on for months now.  my head is a mess.  and in the last few weeks, it's ramped up considerably.  the things we have to figure out (and get done!) are legion.  starting with finding a diesel pickup truck with an extended cab, and then a trailer.  then there's selling the Neon for whatever we can get, finishing up the projects we promised to get done here at our rental house on the Delaware, choosing a new state of residence and transferring insurance/mail/etc over there.  finding new insurance because Geico doesn't do full-time RV insurance.  purging as much as possible from our belongings, sorting into take/store piles, and finding and loading up the storage space.  selling old tech stuff on ebay.  finding a laptop that's viable for blogging and web design, including Photoshop etc, and transferring everything from the desktop over, before selling that whole system.  finding a laptop that the boys can blog from and do their schoolwork from.  and a hard drive big enough to store all our photos.  we plan to rely on public wifi + 3G cell data, so I don't want to depend on the cloud for everything. 

i could go on for pages.  it's simply not simple to become an itinerant family.  there are services that cater to this lifestyle, and thankfully many people whose stories and ideas i can pick over, but it's a mind-boggling number of changes and decisions.  i've had to fall back and let go the last few days, just chipping away at things, and not force decisions or timing.  trusting God to bring things together.  our desire to get out by october first has to do with weather, finances/rent/heating costs, and the desire to just get going.  it looks impossible to me from here, but i can't let that rule the day. 

onward.

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